My Desires in Husband's Brother

Love is an amazing and beautiful feeling of adoration, affection, attachment, fondness, endearment, closeness.

A person can love other people, themselves, animals and things.

Love happens between two evovled consciousnesses

A men and women, who identify themselves beyond body

Love is divine experience, it is beyond human body and mind and it is most selfless and pure emotion

You might have listened that ancient sages experience love of god in deep meditation, that's what i. Am trying to say, it is beyond body

When those sages directed their consciousness inward and detached themselves from body, they experienced love of god

If Love has attachment in it, it is Lust

When lust is transformed and you enter into the city of love, you enter unattached. Remember, that is their definition of love. If love has attachment in it, it is lust, If love has no attachment in it, only then is it not lust. When you are in lust you are not really thinking of the other, thinking of your beloved or lover. You are simply using the other for your own ends. And of course, attachment is bound to be there, because you would like to possess him, and you would like to possess him or her forever. Because tomorrow also you may need, the day after tomorrow also you may need. You need a lover and you want to possess him.

LOVE is a gift. You give; you need not be worried about whether tomorrow he will be there to receive or not. Because a lover can give to the trees, to the rocks. A lover can give to the emptiness of the sky. A lover can simply flower and send his fragrance to the winds, even if nobody is there. Just think: Buddha

sitting under his Bodhi tree, alone, full of love, overflowing

Not that somebody is there to receive, but

God is always there to receive, in so many forms, in so many ways.

Lust is greed, lust is attachment, lust is possessiveness. Love needs no possession, love knows no attachment, because love is not greed. Love is a gift. It is a sharing. You have found something; your heart is full, your fruits are ripe. You hanker that somebody should come and share. It is unconditional; who shares does not matter. But you are so full of it that you would like to be unburdened -- as when clouds are full of rainwater, they rain. Sometimes they rain in a forest, sometimes they rain on a hill, sometimes they rain in a desert, but they rain. The fact of where they rain is irrelevant. They are so full they have to rain. A lover is so full he becomes a cloud, full of lovewater; he has to rain. That raining is spontaneous.

LOVE and LUST ..

These both are very different feelings but in today's world people do not have the clarity between the two of them. SEX is not always LOVE!! ..You think that you want to kiss them or have sexual desires for them does not mean love . LOVE is the most beautiful feeling in the world. The most strongest emotion.

LOVE - Love is just an amazing feeling . It's when you fall for someone without even realizing that you are in love with the person. You feel secure and happy with them. When their happiness is more important. Love can be cute lil talks, caring for each other, supporting each other, understanding each other rather than acting crazy over some issues. LOVE is not just about SEX. It's about how you understand each other , how your soul connects with your partner . Love is when you trust your partner and not become a detective and give them their space also. When you are not insecure about your relationship cz he/she might have friends who they want to talk to . You cannot always talk to your partner for whole day you do need friends !!

When you are in love it doesn't matter what others will think about you and your partner . Age, size , skin colour, height … these things doesn't even matter!!…. The thing that matter is YOUR HEART. It's when you feel relaxed and secure in each other arms . Love is not just going on dates, movies, sex etc .

It's about creating memories watching a movie at home and cuddling is also nice.. Love is supporting each other in difficult times no matter whatever the situation is. It's when you realize that no one is perfect and accept them with their flaws . And the most important thing is when you have to console

your family for your life partner it's difficult but not impossible and when you genuinely love some you will … and it's the most beautiful feeling marrying someone you love with all your family support.

LUST - Simply, I can just say that you have huge sexual desires for your partner !! you just wanna be physical , you want to make love in many different ways . People call it LOVE but NO !! Loving someone

just physically ????? seriously man ???… If you want to be physical there are many different options you can go for but don't make fun of someone's feelings by calling it Love!!… Many things matter in lustful relationship like you want your partner to be sexy in front of your friends , you do take care of him/her weight, size , skin color etc . You wanna show off that you have a sexy partner . That's Lust ! You just care about yourself and your reputation in the society ..

.....And , Since the day I met him, my hormones in my body were dancing and singing across my veins. He is nothing but a sex god.

After seeing him, I doubt if I ever loved my husband, if I love my husband I shouldn't get this sinful desire called LUST, right?

And I feel so awkward to say that I'm simping over MY HUSBAND'S BROTHER...